Monday, August 18, 2025

A Quick Summer Wrap Up

 I'm not sure how we are already halfway through August, but today marks the official end of summer as college classes start back up.  The local school systems have been in class close to two weeks, which means Matt has been back at it already with a school of over 1600.  The South side of town is rapidly growing.  I can't begin to process having that many students under one roof, not to mention all the faculty, staff, coaches, parents, etc.  Be sure to appreciate your principals today - there is nothing simple about the job.  


 Karson was able to make some summer appearances here and there when she got some extended breaks from work.  Miles has been baptized with fire working in HVAC this summer.  It good to know exactly what you're getting yourself in to before committing to it long term.  He starts at SKYCTC today.  Isaac wrapped up his internship with Charles M. Moore on Friday and headed back to EKU Saturday with a carload full.  Matt was playing in a golf tournament so we weren't able to go to Richmond until Sunday, this time loaded down with even more.  

Our house is quiet again, and it feels strange. You never think about this stage when little ones are running around, but here we are. Since our kids are stair steps, they all left at once—and just like that, the noise and chaos are gone.  Don't ever take it for granted.

Today I feel the need to capture some of the lighter moments for posterity.  Summer 2025 has been exciting, HOT, and quick like always.

Anniversaries and Birthdays:

 
 

Trip to Vegas:




 

Monday, June 30, 2025

26 Years Later

Before COVID hit and the entire world shut down, we had plans to go on a cruise with our family.  We'd made arrangements to get all the kids passports, ordered snorkeling gear, and were a month or two away from our final payment.  The cruise was scheduled for Spring Break.

I remember being at Kyoto on Campbell Lane.  Matt and I were there with my sister and brother-in-law Paul waiting for a lacrosse game at Bowling Green Junior High to begin.  Paul (who is a physician) was telling us at dinner about the first real warnings of the coronavirus, and how it was literally shutting everything down.  At the time, none of us could really process an event of that magnitude and impact of what was happening.  The short version - well, you know what happened. No cruise and thankfully we were refunded because all the ports were essentially shut down.   

 
When Matt and I were married in 1999, we'd taken a cruise for our honeymoon on Royal Caribbean.  26 years later, we managed to make that happen again.   Many things have changed since 1999.  I pulled out all of our arrangements, journal, and travels documents out of the attic to make some comparisons. 


I was curious to see how the two lined up.  Both cruises were similar, but in 1999, we set sail from Miami (2025 was Port Canaveral) and an additional stop was made to Key West on the way back from Nassau and CocoCay in route to Miami.


We were two poor college graduates and newlyweds.  This meant than an interior cabin was all we could afford.  I remember thinking...one day, we will come back and have a porthole in our room OR better yet, a balcony.  In 1999, you couldn't just pull up cruise deals and tour ships on a computer.  You either had to work with a travel agency or call businesses directly.  Airlanse Travel made all of our arrangements - flights, cruise, hotel accommodations.  Things were much different then.


In 2025, with the click of a button and download of the app, our entire trip was planned.

Our ship in 1999, Sovereign of the Seas felt enormous.  It was one of the first mega liners of its kind holding 2,800 passengers.  There was no reserving entertainment ahead of time.  You had to go to the concierge to book all your excursions and experiences.  Each night in your stateroom was a pamphlet detailing the stops ahead and events on board the ship.  


I don't remember the ports that vividly but do have some memories like going to Crystal Cay (in Nassau) as an excursion and petting stingrays.  I feel like we wandered through the town which felt a lot like a street fair with vendors everywhere trying to sell you things.  My jaw dropped when I saw the Atlantis resort far in the distance.  Like I said, bits and pieces of memories.  CocoCay, RC's private island, has evolved significantly.  It was a beach in 1999, and today there is a large waterpark, various beach areas, rental cabanas, a few different excursion options and everything in between.


I might be wrong about this, but I think in 1999, you did dinner only for main dining and you were paired with other couples on the ship.  It was also our first experience with all-inclusive dining.

After hitting up the Windjammer restaurant for breakfast on Day 1 in 2025, we opted for main dining for breakfast and dinner the rest of the cruise.  The Windjammer had thousands of options but was SLAMMED with families and not terribly comfortable.  Like the first ship, there were tons of dining, quick service, and grab-n-go options.  


  
We'd start the day off with a specialty iced coffee from Cafe Promenade before heading over to the main dining for made to order breakfasts.  Afterwards, we head down to deck 5 to walk the ships track and burn off some calories.

 

Dressing up for dinner in the main dining hall was fun.  They surprised us one night by bringing us a special dessert to celebrate our anniversary.  We enjoyed shows like Aqua80's water show, the ice show "Youtopia" and adult comedy.  The first night, I wasn't feeling quite right and wanted to lay down and relax, and Matt went to the All In! production and loved it.



In Nassau, we opted out of an excursion.  Basically everything you read online says you can explore the city fairly easily.  That's what we chose to do.  After making our way through the seas of souvenir vendors, trekking up roads in the heat, we founds ourselves at John Watlings distillery.  Free tours and tastings all day - count us in!!!
 

I kept joking with my friend Julie how all my poses seem so unnatural, so we tried some practice photos.  I'm not a picture kind of gal anymore.

 


We came, we sweated, we drank, and we headed back to the ship.  Matt and I made a beeline straight for Sorrento's which is the ships pizza parlor and hands-down, the best treat ever!  I have no idea how much pizza we consumed on our cruise.

 
 

RC's cruise ship Utopia of the Seas is the 3rd largest in the fleet and holds 5,600 passengers.  We were on deck 8 of 18.  How crazy is that?  It was a floating city.  We booked a balcony room and toasted to a beautiful life together.

 

While so much has changed - ships, technology, and the times, cruising together is a highlight we'll never forget!  Plus, we finally got our balcony room!

Friday, May 30, 2025

Matt, Miles, and Marty McFly

As Matt stood up in front of 329 South Warren seniors, he gave them two assignments this summer:

Their first assignment was to watch Back to the Future.  

He made reference to Marty McFly and how he traveled back in time from 1985 to 1955 - 30 years in the past.  This year is the 30 year mark for our high school graduation, and for Matt, that graduation took place at Diddle Arena where the SWHS ceremony was happening in 2025.  He said I would travel back in time 30 years and introduce Matthew Colvin Deaton to his son Miles, stating how weird that would be both.  He said I would then give him two pieces of advice.

    Be more present to the present moment AND the people in your life matter the most.

Their second assignment was to read the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.  He took a quote from the book, "The eternal present is the space within which your whole life unfold, the one factor that remains constant.  Life is now.  There was never a time when your life was not now, or will there ever be."

Miles is definitely the kind of young man who lives in the NOW.  He’s never been one to overthink the future or get caught up in long-term plans.  At 18, he's grounded, appreciative and genuinely grateful.  He loves his family, his friends, working at a job he enjoys, staying fit and active, eating (a lot), playing guitar, going to the movies, and occasionally some golf!  His easygoing nature make him such a special person to be around.

Last Saturday began with our usual brunch at home to celebrate Miles. I’ve hosted the same kind of gathering for our other two Spartan graduates—it’s simple to organize and always a hit. Plus, everyone has to  start out the day with a good breakfast, right?  

We are so thankful for all those who have loved and supported our son through the years!

 
Brunch complete with chicken minis, fruit, breakfast cassroles, sausage square bites, cheese and crackers, chocolate chip cookies and donut holes.

 
  
Pops. Meme, Pap and Nana

 
Shannon, Paul, Mamaw and Pappy

 
Weston, Larie and Debbie


 
Evan, Jennie, and Laila
 
Mike, Kathy and Seth


 
Jackie, Clark and Ms. Windy


 
Tammy, Brady, and Beckham
 
Carson, Robin, Scott and Stacie
Our two sons!

  
Trapper, Amanda, and Liz


 
Ken, Megan, Jeff, Cash, and Emmaline



The party wrapped up around noon.  Karson wasn't able to come to the brunch because of work but made it to town shortly after.  Miles had to be at Diddle by 5:30 which meant leaving our house no later than 5:00.  We all sort of got a late jump on getting ready but did manage to get on the road by 5:07. 

The boys wanted to make an album cover.

 
Since Matt is a VIP (ha!), he got special parking really close to the arena. I wasn’t about to sit inside for two hours, so while we waited, I people-watched as the Warren Central crowd filed out. Matt was busy rehearsing his speech.   It’s hard not to feel happy for all the graduates and their families—you can see pride they feel and know all the hard work they put in to get to this moment.




Our graduation was to begin at 7PM, and we decided to go in and grab some seats at 6PM - AN HOUR EARLY.  I thought we'd be safe, and I was wrong, as usual.  I only needed eight seats, and there were three of us which would make saving those seats easy.  Little did I know entire rows and sections would already be occupied by people saving massive amounts.  It was nuts.  We finally found an open row which wasn't too close but still a nice view of the stage.  Graduations are long, and I have been to many of them at this point.  I wasn't about to get into an argument with someone over closer seats.  Plus, I knew plenty of folks would be sending us pictures, as they have done with our other two graduates (and they did).  


If you want to watch the full event, you can stream it here.

 
And so the youngest Deaton graduates!

 



 

Miles Deaton fan club!
 
It was a special night that ended with a trip to McDonald's and El Mazatlan. 

Congratulations Class of 2025!