Thursday, April 6, 2023

Totally Missed March - Ooops

  There you have it!  After many years of blogging, I actually missed an entire month which also happens to be my birthday month oddly.  It's not that blogging isn't something I enjoy.  Life is simply moving at a new pace these days.  Are we busier?  I'm not sure.  We're just at a different stage of life is all.  Or maybe I have gotten lazier, I don't know.  



Karson is away and staying super busy with nursing school.  Thankful she has this wonderful group of friends/cohort to lean on for support.  It is hard y'all!!!   She has a huge pass fail test today along with an interview at Norton's hospital.  Say a little prayer for her if you can!!  


Miles has been working on his golf game while I've been bundling up trying not to freeze.  

We've been doing our best to enjoy the remaining moments of Isaac's senior year.  When chatting about his senior spring break early on, we decided Chicago would be a fun place to visit.  Both boys had never been.  I know golf season will require some vacation days so I didn't particularly want to use a whole (work) week for a trip.  Honestly, you don't really need more than a few days in a big city to enjoy it.  I approached Isaac about maybe going there for a long 4-day trip and seeing the Blackhawks play.  He was totally in at that point.  I found a great hotel deal at La Quinta Inn/Wyndham Downtown on Priceline which included a free, hot breakfast (SCORE!).  Driving saved us some money as well.  We took off Friday afternoon when everyone was home from school.  The weather looked rough, and we managed to make it through some storms safely arriving at our hotel around midnight.  I'd found a cheap parking garage close to the hotel and booked it online.  After unloading everything and getting settled, we looked for the spot.  When we arrived, the garage door was down and we sort of panicked and circled back around to see if there was another opening - nope!  We decided to pull on up to the closed garage, and the door triggered and opened (thankfully).  

Before the trip, I had purchased a few things ahead of time. One of them being tickets to The Second City which I think is a Chicago must (especially if you like comedy and SNL).  Give it a Google.  I also purchased some of those passes with attraction options.  I liked the Go City Pass options better than the actual Chicago CityPass because you could pick what you wanted to do.  Having flexibility is what I like personally.  

Saturday was rather chilly, but after breakfast, we bundled up and headed to the Hop On/Hop Off bus stop up the street.  We somehow missed that you needed to grab some ear buds when loading and were completely LOST since we couldn't hear anything.  At the first stop we were going to get off and grab some earbuds at a CVS so we could hear when we learned we'd missed grabbing them when loading.  Lovely.  Once ear budded, the tour was way more engaging.  We made a stop at Field Museum.  I'd been to the museum before so I didn't spend much time exploring.  I found a cozy spot and started my search for Blackhawks tickets.  I'd kept my eye on Ticketmaster for a few weeks to gauge the pricing levels and watch for deals.  We found some great seats, but when I tried to purchase/secure them, my card was denied.  I think I'd put too many huge transactions on it so Chase blocked it.  Eeeeek.  Thankfully Matt had another card that we were able to use to get the tickets.  


The boys had a good time at Field, and we were able to see the new First Kings exhibit.

A friend had recently posted on Facebook asking about must-do's in Chicago and someone had mentioned eating at Ed Debevic's.  I'd never heard of it, but it looked entertaining.  We headed there for lunch after the museum.  My personal opinion:  don't waste your time or money especially if you have been to a Dick's Last Resort.  The vibe is similar, and I wasn't a fan of the food even though everyone else liked it (minus Matt who thought his chocolate shake was gross).  We spent over $100 to get insulted for an hour, and again, it was okay. 

 
 


We skipped the bus and did some exploring around the area since we were super close to Michigan Avenue.  Miles and I were pooped and decided to get back on the bus and ride around.  Isaac and Matt continued on with sight seeing and shopping.  We all made it back to the hotel in time to relax before the hockey game.  The CTA is the cheapest way to travel around Chicago, and we decided our best route to get to the United Center.  Fortunately, the bus stop was close since it was so cold outside.



I know very little about hockey, but one thing I do know is that it HAS to be HARD.  It's probably why they have three periods each game and lots of transitions between plays.  The Blackhawks are sadly one of the worst NHL teams, but they played the New Jersey Devils who were incredible to watch.  Matt was in awe of all the Bulls pennants and being in the same place where Michael Jordan played.


We collapsed in the hotel that night.  I made reservations for the next morning at Skydeck (at 10:30AM).  On Sunday morning, after we ate breakfast, we walked over to Willis Tower.  We were all a little nervous about The Ledge.  The anticipation definitely makes you anxious, but before loading the elevator to the 103rd floor of Willis Tower, there is an experience which is nice. You walk through a museum of sorts with different Chicago scenery.  I'm sure it's designed to space everyone out and make the event more meaningful.

 

 
 
 

I thought I would be more scared when we got off on the 103rd floor after riding four separate elevators, but it was fine.  Years ago when we went to St. Louis and up in the arch, I couldn't wait to get back down.  I thought it would be similar to that, but it wasn't. We later learned that you can see four states from that floor:  Illinois, Indiana, Wisconsin and Michigan.  The line to the LEDGE was long, but we got in it ready for action (or so I thought).  As we got closer and closer to the Ledge, my heart started racing a little more and my feet got that odd tingle in them.  There are five ledges for line goers to funnel into, and you have 90 seconds to take pictures. If you need more time than that, you have to get back in line.  I needed less than 5 seconds - lol.  When it was our turn, I panicked.  I wasn't about to get on that thing.  Isaac yanked me onto it for a quick family picture, and I leapt off immediately.  I still get nervous thinking about it.  


 

WEIRDOS!!!!  

 


GET ME OUT OF HERE!!!


After Skydeck, the boys were wanting something normal for lunch so we made our way over to Cane's close to Millennium Park.  We also wanted to go on the Shoreline Architecture Cruise of the city that afternoon and was fairly close to the park.  Sunday was a beautiful day too, and a nice day to walk around outside.  



 

We walked over to Shoreline at the perfect time as the next boat was about to take off.  Did I like the cruise?  I did. It was very architecture heavy (thus the tour name) but still interesting.  It was gorgeous though and a nice way to bake in the sun and warm up for a little bit.  We walked around for a little while after the cruise before heading back to the hotel to rest before Second City.


For dinner, we went to Portillo's.  It is a Chicago staple and delicious.  Isaac got a burger.  Miles got the chicken alfredo.  Matt and I got Chicago style hot dogs.  Everyone like their food, and it was money well spent.


Second City delivered a hilarious improv production and was the perfect end to our Sunday.



Monday was wide open.  We still had one event left to use on our passes.  There was no hard plan in place so we let the boys sleep in that morning.  Matt and I walked down to Willis Tower and got coffee and ate some of the most delicious donuts from Do-Rite Donuts and Chicken.  I got the coconut and he got the blueberry crumb.


Once the boys starting stirring and texting us, we grabbed them some glazed donuts and headed back to the hotel.  Matt and Isaac were trying to figure out a place to watch the NCAA finals when I threw a new idea into the mix.  We'd been at the hotel since late Friday night and shared queen beds.  The boys had been wanting to bowl.  They've been Wii bowling a lot lately.  Lucky for us, it was an event we could use on our passes at 10pin Bowling.  You also got a drink and two slices of pizza with it.  My bright idea was this...let's go bowling and then head home.  If we left by 1PM, we'd be back in BG by game time. Bonus, we wouldn't have to spend most of Tuesday in the car. Everyone loved that idea and actually sleeping in their own beds.  AND, we didn't have to try and find a sports bar late that night to watch the game on.  Our hotel TV was bad.


We finished our trip with some bowling and pizza, grabbed our car out of the garage, loaded up and got back to BG just in time for the game.  I got to enjoy two long vacation days at home which was nice.

We loved out time in the Windy City, but there truly is no place like home (and your own bed)!

Tuesday, February 14, 2023

An Extra Super Sunday


Super Bowl Sunday was super special this year.  Matt and I made the early trek up to Louisville to take Karson to breakfast at Bruegger's Bagels (her fav) and celebrate her transition ceremony in upper division nursing at the University of Louisville.



Last week was extra stressful for our future nurse with lots of exams and quizzes.  Not surprising to us, she handled them all with ease and got A's.  

 

She also recently joined both the UofL Nursing Student Council as a student representative along with the the UofL Kentucky Nursing Association of Nursing Students.  Both organizations provide her with more opportunities to get involved in her field and have a voice.


It was a pretty quick trip but a special one.  We're super proud of our future Cardinal nurse!

Wednesday, January 25, 2023

Warning: Another ADULT Deaton in the House


 Isaac is officially an adult today!  He's such a fun young man, and we've enjoyed his childhood tremendously.  These next few months as he makes "adult" decisions will be important ones.  However, we know that he is fully capable of the next chapter and whatever he decides to do with his life.  He has always been the kind of person that walks to the beat of his own drum but is also willing to listen to the opinions of others.  We're thinking he would make a good lawyer especially with his arguing/reasoning skills which have recently been demonstrated in Scattergories which we play A LOT these days.

Isaac had requested Gingerbread House constructing over Christmas, but those things are stupid expensive for what you get.  Plus, half the time the icing doesn't work, they end up falling down, and it turns into a sticky disaster.  I squashed the idea and told him no.  However, the kits were marked down significantly after Christmas, so I purchased one to give him on his birthday.  I knew it would tickle him, and the same fun would be had at a fraction of the price.  Hah!


These two have a special relationship/friendship and spent lots of time laughing and decorating this masterpiece.

Karson came in town over the weekend.  The first of ANY college semester is stressful, and upper division nursing is no different. Her new job as a University of Louisville student tutor began last week as well.  Lots of new adjustments and classes coming at her at once, but she is taking it all in stride.  We're super proud of her.  

 


 




 

Because she was in town, we decided to pull a birthday party for Isaac together last minute.  He'd told me he didn't have to work on Sunday but had to work on his actual birthday (today).  He also told me he wanted to watch the football games. We decided it would be fun  to invite family and friends over at 2PM for football, appetizers, cookie cake and celebrating!  It was a great Sunday!

 
Today, his actual birthday, I made him a donut hole tower.  Unfortunately, no one wants to take pictures at 6:45AM so I didn't subject him to that torture (although I did ask).

We capped off the evening at Texas Roadhouse, and we made it a point to sing at 7:11 on the dot, not too long after we got back home from dinner.

Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Another Trip Around the Sun - Welcome 2023

 
Look at that FORM?!?!?


Our holiday kick off starts the first weekend of December when we travel to Louisville to see our extended Pogue family.  We were fortunate this year that my Mamaw was able to be there.   She is 91 and up until November, was still getting around and living on her own.  Family live both across the street and next door and check(ed) on her regularly.  One early morning, she fell and broke her hip when they found her curled up on the floor.  She was taken to the hospital, had surgery, and has been in rehab/confined for some time. Since being discharged, she now resides in Lexington to live with my aunt permanently.

 

We don't even bother trying to "dress up" for the gathering because the boys are ready to shoot some hoops upon arrival.  Our event takes place at Okolona church in the gymnasium.



Matt wasn't able to be with us this year due to a conference he had to be at in San Antonio.  Everyone missed him.


~ We eat, we drink, we shoot hoops, we visit, we take pictures, we play Dirty Santa ~


If I haven't mentioned it lately, I work with one of the best groups of people on the planet.  This is the Business and IT Division at Skyctc.  Hands down, some of the finest educators and human beings I am fortunate enough to know.  We had our Christmas dinner/gift exchange at El Mazatlan.  

 

It was insanely cold the week of Christmas.  I'm not sure we've had temperatures that low since 1994.  The house was rather chilly despite keeping it at a comfortable temperature.  We only had a handful of snafu's during the cold (some prior).  You know "they" say household events always happen in sets of three (3).

(1)  The first thing happened the week prior to Christmas.  Miles had been invited to his girlfriends quinceanera.  I was not familiar with the event but knew it was super special.  He had an entry ticket and dressed up nice. I, however, was sporting my University of Louisville attire since they were playing in the NCAA Volleyball finals that night.  Sidenote: they lost.

Matt was home cooking a meal for me, him, Isaac, Adam and Karson (since Adam was in town for a quick visit for the holidays) before heading over to the Maglinger's to watch the game.  

The party was at Jaycee's Pavilion.  After arriving and walking Miles in, I quickly noticed how out of place I looked with my attire.  Everyone was super dressed up and looked fabulous.  They were so inviting and wanted me to stay and eat and put us up at one of the tables in the front.  I couldn't pass that up although I wanted to crawl under a rock and change.  The food was super delicious, and the place was packed.  It was my first time meeting Emely and her family.  Thankful Miles has such a special young lady in his life who we adore.

 


While I was at the event, Matt messaged me and let me know that our microwave completely blew.  Ugh.  He was hoping it was a breaker, but it made a weird sound while he was cooking potatoes.  Appliances are the WORST to replace especially this one since it was built in to our cabinets and had a trim kit.  I knew it was going to be a challenge to replace or even find.

We set out on a mission the next morning after removing all the hardware from the trim kit and getting a closer look at what we needed for a replacement.  Of course our model did not exist - shocking since it was 14 years old.  There's always hope.  Matt measured every angle, dimension depth, etc. hopeful to find exactly what we needed.  

I grabbed the actual trim piece because I figured if something would open and close and was the right depth, heck, it might work even if it isn't completely the same.  We traveled to Lowe's.  Lo and behold there was a Samsung on display that was almost identical to what we had.  A Christmas miracle, y'all!  Better yet, it was ON SALE for cheaper than we had assumed we'd have to pay.  The only problem was that this one was a display and not in stock.  However, there was one in Franklin, KY - but only one!

We headed back to the house to cook breakfast for the kids.  Afterwards, Matt took off for the Franklin Lowe's and snagged the microwave.  When he got it back home, the box looked rough.  The microwave was beat up too and didn't work - the door hinge was off and there was a dent in the back of it.  Maybe that's why it was the only one left on the shelf?  Ugh!  Isn't this the way things go???  We opted to order one online from Walmart which was priced even cheaper than Lowe's.  

A few days later, the new microwave arrived and after some finagling, we got it to work.  It's not perfect, but it works and looks good.  Whew!  


(2)  the second thing happened right before Christmas day I believe.  The temperature was crazy cold.  Karson has two attics off of her bedroom.  One attic holds all of our junk priceless treasures.  The other auxiliary attic has our furnace, paint, and our lovely tankless water heater in it.  About two years ago, we had to replace our tankless heater and in the process, they took out all the insulation that was built around the previous one.  We were told it wouldn't be necessary (but should've known better).  On occasion, we've had to take the hair dryer up there and blow it on the pipes to make the hot water work which happened once during the bitter cold spell.  However, because it got SO cold this go around, our drain pipe that exits the house and is built into the floor flash froze.  We didn't know until Miles was taking a shower and water started coming through our bucket light above our staircase (where the heater is located).  B-E-A-utiful.  There was no solution for this sadly.  We cleaned up what we could and laid down towels and added a bucket for the water release.  Fortunately it wasn't LOTS of water but enough that it needed something until that pipe could thaw out.  

The warmer temperatures helped with that.  It was a freak thing but still a wet (late night) surprise.  Fortunately, nothing major was damaged.



Christmas Eve is spent at Pops and Meme's house.


Christmas Day is spent at Pap and Nana's house.

We're fortunate to have such wonderful families who spoil us with love and thoughtful gifts.  It also nice to have two solid weeks off of work - PAID!  

(3)  the third thing happened in our garage with an electrical outlet which turned out not to be a big deal.  None of our outlets were working.  The only reason we noticed was because Matt had purchased an Apple watch with some Christmas money and was looking at our Q-garage door app. which wasn't working.  After replacing one of the plug outlets, the problem was still not solved but magically started working the next day.  We're going to blame that one on the weird weather too.


Speaking of great Christmas gifts, my sweet mother-in-law got me a Sam's Club membership.  I'd let mine expire back in May and hadn't renewed it.  With grocery inflation, I'm trying to be more mindful of how I plan meals and spend money.  I decided to buy this gigantic meat log, cut it up into 1lb proportions and freeze it.  We got close to 9.5 lbs. for $34.  I have noticed that even though it is 80/20 ground chuck, it's still a little greasier than I would like.  With the exception of hamburgers (which caught on fire), this works for most of what I cook with crumbled ground chuck.

 

New Years Eve shenanigan's at Paul and Shannon's!

 

For me, work started back on January 2.  Matt had gone into the office some that week as well, but Isaac and Miles didn't have their first day back until January 4 which was also the day Karson planned to leave to go back to Louisville.

A few days prior, she had her final ortho visit with Dr. Dierckman who cleared her for everything.  Outside of working soft tissues and muscles, she is completely healed from her surgery last summer.  She does plan to have her screws removed this summer although it's not necessary.  They give her some pain, but fortunately, it is outpatient and fairly quick from our understanding.  Dr. Dierckman told her to call him when her semester is over and get it scheduled when time permits.  He also told her he expects her to get straight A's again this semester.  We love him!


The day Karson planned to take off back to the 'ville' I was going to cook a nice dinner after work for her send off.  She needed to get back and prepare for the semester, tie up some things she needed to get done that week which included training for UL tutoring, picking up her scrubs, and scheduling her last few PT sessions.

As I was leaving work at KATI and sitting at the stoplight on Morgantown Road waiting for my light to turn green, two vehicles smashed right in front of me with one colliding with me.  Long story short, I called Matt and asked him to come out in case Karson needed to leave because I wasn't sure how long I'd be there.  I've got minor damage compared to the two other vehicles which are totaled completely.  The damage on my car is enough to be annoying.  I'm simply waiting on the police report to have an adjuster come look at my car.  Fortunately, no one was severely injured, but it was a bad wreck and not the way I wanted to end that particular day (or any day for that matter).


I got home about an hour+ later than planned, cooked our girl a tasty dinner before she took off for school.  We miss her terribly already but glad that she is moving forward with her goals and starting her nursing chapter.


Karson's post from Instagram (yesterday)

I am very blessed to be starting nursing school this semester. For those of you who don’t know, in summer 2022 I was diagnosed with hip dysplasia and a labrum tear and had a major surgery called a periacetabular osteotomy. My phenomenal doctor repositioned my pelvis around my femur in order to stabilize my joint and fixed my labrum through arthroscopy. Therefore, I have been in physical therapy for months in order to restore strength in my left leg and eliminate the pain my hip had been causing. While my journey is not over yet, during these past few months I have very much improved my physical quality of life and also learned some important lessons, number one being don’t take anything for granted. With this, I am happy to say I have recovered enough to participate fully in nursing school. I am proud of myself for working so hard, and I am ready to continue that in both my recovery and educational career. 
Go me and go cards! ❤️🩺


Glad to still be stuck with these two goofballs at home for a while.  They make life fun!


We desperately needed an updated family car even though our youngest will be driving soon.  

We've had our Highlander since 2010, and it has served us well on many trips.  After looking at a variety of cars/SUV/styles - we decided to stick with the familiar and get an updated Highlander on Saturday.  The beauty of the internet is that you can find exactly what you're wanting, for around the price you're wanting and most of the time - relatively close.  We found our new ride in Gallatin and took a little road trip.  Not sure if we'll keep this one indefinitely, but it's a nice upgrade that should last a little while longer.


CHEERS to 2023 - prayers for a healthy and happy New Year!