Wednesday, August 5, 2026

A Living Journal


I heard on the radio this morning that August 5 is Blogger Day. Is it just a coincidence that I heard that and felt the need to write a blog post? I'll never know!  This one will be short and sweet.

First of all...how are we already eight months into the year? I don't know where the time has gone. The older I get, the faster it goes.  In just a few months, Matt and I will both celebrate our 50th birthdays. And somehow, all three of our kids will officially be in their 20's which is hard to believe.

The reason I started this blog in 2007 was to create a living journal for our kids and, hopefully, future generations of Deaton's. I wanted to blog about moments, milestones, and memories that are easy to forget. My hope is that one day they'll enjoy looking back to see what life was like, what was happening in our family, and learn a little more about who we were along the way.

For the sake of posterity, here are a few highlights from last week:

Monday: My friend Jennie and I skipped our evening neighborhood walk and went to the pool instead. Sometimes you just need to cool off in this heat!

Tuesday: I went with Matt to the softball team's end-of-season banquet. It was a special evening celebrating a team that made history at South Warren by going 45-0 and winning the state championship.


Wednesday: Matt went with Isaac and McKayla to see The Odyssey at the IMAX in Hendersonville.

Thursday: Our SKYPAC group enjoyed a fun post-work gathering at Hickory & Oak, followed by SINGO at White Squirrel.


Friday: I made the onstage announcements for Concerts in the Park. I don't have a fear of public speaking, and I always go in knowing exactly what I want to say, but somehow it all gets jumbled once I'm standing in front of the crowd! During the break, Matt and I walked back over to SKYPAC to catch a little of Afroman's performance.

 

Saturday: We spent the day at the lake with friends and wrapped up the evening with a shrimp boil.

Sunday: I caught up on laundry and grocery shopping, did some meal planning and prep for the week, and headed to the mall to help Miles find work pants while Matt looked for a few new suits and dress pants.  We (and by "we" I mean Miles but it's a team effort) are watching our adoptive pooch Oreo this week.

Nothing earth-shattering. Just another week filled with family, friends, and work. We all know the drill. I'm perfectly okay with ordinary.  It just seems like time flies a little faster every year.

HAPPY BLOG DAY!

Saturday, July 11, 2026

One Week Later

A week ago today, I was on my fourth load of post-cruise laundry. Miles was headed to work and spending the weekend dog-sitting for friends. The weather was much like today-rainy-and the grass was looking like a jungle. We needed groceries and a few home-cooked meals after days of all the food you could eat. Isaac was getting ready to head to Lexington to celebrate McKayla's birthday with her. Life had settled back into our everyday routine of normal.  I think that's what make a vacation so special - it gives us something to look forward to and teaches us to be grateful for the times we get to spend with our kids.  For us these days, that doesn't happen all that often.

COVID disrupted the first family cruise we had planned together. After sailing on Utopia of the Seas last summer with our friends, I knew I wanted our kids to experience that same kind of vacation. Miles was fortunate enough to go on a cruise last spring, but I was excited that this time our whole family would get to experience it together.  We started our planning last Christmas and secured the 8th floor which is the same place we'd stayed last year BUT with adjoining rooms and balconies.  It was perfect!

I can't say enough great things about Home2 Suites by Hilton on International Drive in Orlando.  Since we wanted to fly in the day before our cruise, we needed a hotel for the night. I had accumulated enough Hilton Honors points to book our room completely free. Our plan was to catch a shuttle from the airport to the hotel which Home2 Suites provided complimentary.  However, they also provided free transportation to areas around the hotel which included tons of food options and shopping.  The area is walkable, and we did that some as well because waiting for the shuttle sometimes took longer than walking to where you wanted to go.  But it was HOT and the weather always looked unpredictable.  Because we arrived at our hotel early, the room wasn't ready so we decided to have the shuttle take us over to Cracker Barrel where we ate a big brunch and then did some shopping.  

When we got back to the hotel, the room was ready.  We all wanted to crash, but I was too restless so I headed down to the pool.  This is where I met the sweetest family which as it turned out, was going on the same cruise as us.  It didn't take long for Matt to come down.  It's hard to unwind, and we were both excited about spending time together with our kids who eventually came down too.  We ate Jersey Mikes for dinner and also had some Coldstone Creamery before turning in.

The next morning's agenda consisted of eating the free breakfast at the hotel, catching a Lyft to Port Canaveral, and boarding the ship as early as possible. Our boarding time was 11:30 a.m., but passengers can usually board as early as 10:30 a.m. which we did!

Matt and Miles checking out the gym on Utopia.

You have to pack a small bag when you board early because your cabin isn't ready.  The stewards take your luggage directly to your room which you can usually get in around 1PM.  We got our wifi set up, did some exploring of the ship, and changed into our swim suits, and headed to the pool which was not crowded at all.  In fact, Miles and I did a couple of the water slides because the wait was super short.  We had some drinks, ate some food, and participated in launch party which is a giant dance/pool party when the ship takes off!

 

After our cabins were ready, we headed back to shower and get ready for dinner.  We had selected My Time Dining, which means you aren't assigned a specific dinner time and can eat whenever it works best for you.  When we arrived around 6:30 p.m., we were surprised. Instead of waiting in line, we were escorted to a special dining section and told it was a "privilege" reserved for guests who consistently arrived around that time. They explained that if we continued coming at 6:30 each evening, we could skip the lines and head straight to our table for dinner.  It sounded like a great plan for us!

My stomach is usually a wreck on vacations, but it doesn't stop me from eating everything!  Cruise dinners and breakfasts are my favorite, especially in the formal dining room.  There is so much to choose from, and while it's not the best meal you've ever had, it's decent considering the amount of people they have to feed daily.  Our waiters, Dhiraj and Andra, were two of the sweetest people we met on the cruise. Dhiraj was always smiling and enthusiastic about the menu, and loved surprising us with things - like an anniversary dessert with the staff singing to Matt and I, or specially prepared steaks. Their kindness always made us feel special.  After dinner that night, we enjoyed the Ice Skating show.

 

Matt and I learned our lesson last year about the Windjammer and avoided it all costs.  I'm sure the food was/is great, but the crowd is nuts and something we wanted to avoid. We enjoyed breakfast in the main dining room every morning, and Karson joined us each day. It was a much more relaxed way to start the day, and breakfast is made to order.  We usually brought the boys back something as well - cinnamon rolls for Isaac and pancakes and bacon for Miles.

 

 
 Our first port of call was the Bahamas.  We'd planned an excursion that day, which we hadn't done last year.  The plan was for Miles and I to go to Pearl Island Beach and for Matt, Karson and Isaac to go to the same place but with added snorkeling option.   Lunch was provided on the island - it sounded fun.  What I didn't anticipate was how long it would take to coordinate and organize the shuttle transportation. The boat ride took forever and was hot.  The food was okay, and the area was a little run down.  Karson, Isaac and Matt enjoyed the snorkeling and saw some neat things.  Miles and I got in the ocean and chilled uner an umbrella.  Overall I think it was a fun experience, but I wouldn't recommend it or choose to do it again.    There is plenty to do walking around the Bahamas, visiting the shops, and seeing the sights.  The ship is also less crowded which makes it enjoyable too.  

The kids got a picture with the Carnival cruise ship famous for the documentary The Poop Cruise.
Once we got back on the ship and cooled down, we got ready for dinner.  We were supposed to go to another show but after a hot, long day, none of us had the energy or desire to do that.  Matt and Miles went to the Promenade and ate pizza, went to the 70's/80's dance party and then headed to the night club (which was also at the ice skating rink).  They had some funny stories to share later that night.




 


The next morning, we arrived at CocoCay, Royal Caribbean's private island in the Bahamas. Lunch is included on the island, making it easy to spend the day there. It's a beautiful beach where you can relax in a lounge chair, read, play games if you want (Miles enjoyed ping pong and pickleball) and swim in the ocean. 


That night, we went to the Aqua80s show, and it was amazing the second time around for us!   The acrobatics, diving, music, and overall production is a must see, and I believe the choreography was different this go around because there was quite a bit I don't remember from last year.

What made it an even more memorable show was the atmosphere. The AquaTheater is located on the same deck where people watch sporting events (there's a big sports bar on this deck), and the USA World Cup match was taking place at the same time as our show. There was a lot of excitement and overall energy especially when the USA won the match!


The next and final full day on the ship was a sea day.  There's no rush to get off the ship or stick to a schedule, which is nice.  You simply get to enjoy everything the ship has to offer.  This was our second time on Utopia, and I still don't think Matt and I have experienced everything there is to do. It's amazing how much there is packed into one ship.

Isaac running the chess table on our deck!  He played quite a few opponents during the week!

 
Miles wanted some Utopia T-shirts, knowing they'd go on sale the last day of the cruise 2 for $30. Once they snagged a couple, he and Matt proudly wore their new shirts. We wanted to coordinate the 4th of July with some festive outfits.  I did my best to coordinate outfits during our cruise.  The kids were good sports about it which I appreciated.


That night we wrapped the evening with a comedy show.  Me, Matt and Miles were the only ones that went.  Karson and Isaac wanted to go back to the room and chill.  We got all our stuff packed up and ready to go.  The next morning, we weren't in a rush to leave because we had a flight later in the afternoon.  We did take advantage of the dining room breakfast one last time. 

We left the ship, grabbed an Uber to the airport, and prepared for a long wait before our flight. Thankfully, Orlando's airport is one of the nicest I've ever been to, so spending several hours there wasn't nearly as bad as it could have been. 

Nashville welcomed us home with sheets of rain and storms (YAY), which actually delayed our landing.  It also made for a long drive home. And just like that, we were unpacking suitcases, doing laundry, and settling back into routine!  And here we are, one week later.

The cruise went by in the blink of an eye.  I'm grateful for a special trip with my family, and I'm excited about our next adventure.  We're thinking a fall trip to Destin might be necessary!


Saturday, June 27, 2026

The Midyear Reset

We say it every year, almost with surprise: half the year's already gone. It doesn't seem possible when Christmas feels like yesterday.  I'm not sure I've always felt like time moved this fast, but this year, I definitely do!  Maybe it's because I started a new job. My days are filled with new responsibilities, new people, and plenty of things to learn. Between trying to keep up with new tasks and settling into a different routine, the weeks seem to disappear before I even realize they're gone.  And NOW, it's June. Half the year is behind us.  Life can make time feel different.  I can only assume it will get even quicker from here on out.

 

Like most summers during our kids' younger years, spending time at Pap and Nana's is still one of their favorite things to do! I can certainly see why - there's always something fun going on. Whether it's riding around on big toys, going to the lake, entertaining the younger cousins, or just enjoying time together, Pap and Nana always make it a place where everyone wants to be!!!




Our big kid reunion and graduation festivities celebrating all the college grads in our pack! While not everyone is pictured, this group has been together since their Cradle Roll days at church. It's hard to believe they're all grown up and heading off in different directions. We're so proud of each of them and excited to see what lies ahead!

Speaking of college graduates, we finally got Isaac back home...woohoo! I'm not sure he shares quite the same level of excitement, but he knows it's only temporary and seems happy to be back.

Before moving out of Richmond, he sold most of his belongings to lighten the load. He also enjoyed a trip to Myrtle Beach with McKayla's family, Karson got to spend a day visiting with him, and we got to hang out with him in Lexington when the SWHS girls softball team made their historic 45-0 run  to the state finals and won the championship game!

 

Matt and I celebrated #27 at Salento's Italian, a new restaurant in Bowling Green because we simply don't have enough dining options to choose from.  It was wonderful!  The staff had signed a card for us, and treated us to a dessert even though we spared NO expense on the meal. We ordered salads, an appetizer, drinks, meals, of course, separate desserts.  I had the traditional tiramisu and Matt got our waitresses favorite called Budino which was FABULOUS! Afterwards, we went to the Mint and won some dough.  It didn't quite pay for the meal but came close!



Matt and Miles have been enjoying some golf this summer. They played in the Member/Member tournament earlier this month at Franklin and won their flight. Miles doesn’t get to play as much as he did in high school, but I’m thankful they had successful rounds together and got to enjoy the sport they both LOVE.



Matt was also able to join a quick golf trip with our friend Brad and play some courses in Alabama for a couple of days. He’s competed in the Club Championship at FCC and had a heartbreaker yesterday, losing on the 18th hole. He still has plans to play in the Member/Guest at Indian Hills CC and the Member/Guest at FCC-golf is his thing and his way to recharge during the summer.

 

We celebrated Ben's birthday on the 15th at Longhorn.  We definitely take up lots of space with a fun crew!

SKYPAC recently took over the summer Concerts in the Park series, which happens right in our front yard at Circus Square Park. I love that our community has the option to come out and enjoy something completely free and open to everyone.  There’s something special about seeing folks spread out on blankets and lawn chairs, kids AND adults dancing, and everyone enjoying live music together. It’s one of those fun community traditions that makes Bowling Green a special place to live.


If you’re lucky, you might catch me on stage announcing. I don’t really have a fear of public speaking because I rehearse everything ahead of time… but somehow it all falls out of my brain the second I start speaking into the mic, and I go off-book pretty quick. Oof.  At least my friends told me I did a great job last night and I didn't fall off the stage, so I’ll take that as a win!


Our vacation starts tomorrow, and I am ready for a weeklong break with the family!